As a girl I had a thing for trees. Their strength, dignity and steadfastness drew me to love them. When
I was 8 we once again moved to a place that had many old trees still standing amid
the apartments and city-ness. Often I would grab a book and somehow make my way
10, 12 even 15 feet up these trees. I would then snuggle down in a barky crotch
of branches and read away the day.
One day I was just goofing around in a very big fellow, not
really thinking, just swinging around from trunk to branch when my grip slipped,
my legs failed and I began to fall. About 8 feet. Straight down.
Oooof.
I landed flat on my back.
Hard.
I remember lying
there looking up at the benign branches thinking,
“I will never ever breathe again”
When suddenly I gasped and sucked in air, only to realize I
was still alive but
my… everything… hurt.
A lot.
I rolled over gasping in breaths of crunchy leaves and
knowing I was not going to tell anyone about this. Thankfully no one was around
and I could just be still and wait for the pain to leave while I concentrated
on breathing again.
Have you ever been there?
Maybe you didn’t fall out of a tree but you know that
feeling. The pain covering you like a wave and the very life breath sucked out
of you. Perhaps for you it was a more grown up injury, a car accident or an
illness. Maybe it wasn’t your health at all but your heart that was wounded.
Pierced.
Sucker punched.
You know the feeling.
You just can’t breathe.
I have had some tough times in my life; from the minute I
was born the odds were not in my favor. As a child I lived through divorced
parents, family strife, moving every year (or more often). I felt unwanted,
forgotten, discounted. I heard and saw some tough things. As I matured and
grew older I realized it really was pretty rotten. I went to counseling. I cried and I
moaned to people about the terrible things I had to live through. But I kept on
living. I kept on moving through life, having some pretty good times too, adding
amazing new people to my life. Good memories began to happen. I had come to
know Jesus in my young adult years and I would find some comfort from my faith
but I couldn't let myself be really happy. I kept going back to the sadness. I just
knew that no one understood pain like I did. No one. I had this relationship
with God that was strange. I learned as much as I could about Him but it just
couldn't penetrate the hurt. I could tell anyone who He was and how he saved me
but I still couldn't understand the painful memories.
Finally one day I fell out of the tree.
I knew things in my life were wrong. Not just bad but wrong.
Relationships were speeding out of control and I was caving in under it all.
The family I had built, the marriage I had worked so hard for, all came loose around
me. My life was unalterably changed. The damage had been done. Life as I knew it was over.
As I sat on the folding chair in the empty church building
my marriage, my family and my life began to slide out of my grasp. My grip
slipped, my legs failed and I began to fall.
About 100 feet.
Straight down.
As I opened my eyes the next morning I couldn’t breathe. The
pain came in like a flame, searing me. I lay there looking up at the ceiling
thinking,
“I will never ever breathe again”
When suddenly I gasped and sucked in air, only to realize I
was still alive but
my… everything… hurt.
More than anything ever hurt before.
I really didn't care if I did ever breathe again. It hurt too much.
I used to think I knew pain and I was the best martyr in the
world. But then it all came together as the insufficient way I knew God was
colliding with the first real true pain I had ever known.
The God I had allowed in my life when I was younger, crying for myself, was
one who loved and was powerful in a distant divorced dad kind of way. I knew about Him. And He took care of my needs
but He was a voice on the phone. He was a check in the mail. I could get angry
with Him. I could distance myself from Him.
But when my life was
blown out of my hands like sand. When I knew I could never breathe again.
When the pain crushed my wisdom, my soul. I opened my eyes to find Him near. As
I had done before I wanted to hide and keep the shame and fear contained. But
He pursued me like a hound from Heaven. He gathered me up until His arms became
solid beneath my head and His touch wiped my tears, His breath breathed inside
my lungs. He became so tangible I thought some nights that I was crazy to feel
the Creator of the Universe rocking me to sleep.
I certainly am no
Job. I did not live through even half of his calamity. But I understand his
incredulity as he finally sees his pain for what it is; when he finally sees
His God. And He cries out,
“I
admit I once lived by rumors of you;
now
I have it all firsthand—from my own eyes
and ears!
I’m sorry—forgive me. I’ll never do that again, I promise!
I’ll never again live on crusts of hearsay, crumbs of rumor.” Job 42:1-6 The Message
I’m sorry—forgive me. I’ll never do that again, I promise!
I’ll never again live on crusts of hearsay, crumbs of rumor.” Job 42:1-6 The Message
Encouraging.....well written and thought out. Your words are a testimony of true christian attributes. The Father always just a breath away. Keep writing.
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